August 29, 2022
By: Jonee Kulman Brigham
The July/August column from Paradigm Worker, a place for (mostly) monthly reflections on how we think about things, and why it matters.
After the initial thrill of finding yet another inspiring artist, writer, or making any new connection between ideas, I often have a second reaction of overwhelm. There are so many possibilities to explore and ways to explore them. I consider if a long weekend or dropping some activities would give me the time to dive into each topic, but there never seems to be enough time to do it all. This is not an illusion. There really isn’t time to do it all--but there is time to do enough. I am grateful for the advice of those like Barbara Sher, who suggest capturing the abundance in “idea books” and making project calendars that span a lifetime to realize all the time available. I also appreciate the insights of Barry Schwartz on how to use sufficiency thinking to navigate the “paradox of choice” that overwhelms us with options. But I still need to keep relearning the lessons myself in a world that seems overabundant in choice, but scarce in time.
One strategy I’ve used is to create limiting structures like planning a presentation, publication, or exhibit to provide a deadline and a scope to deliver. This ensures I move forward in my exploration, and if planned well, can also provide enough flexibility to weave in emergent possibilities. But there are still the possibilities left on the table to cope with. Recently, I was spending time with grieving all I can’t do at this threshold between too many possibilities and not enough ‘me,’ and found myself using poetry to navigate the struggle. Here is what this threshold is feeling like right now. For those that experience this tension, I wonder what it feels like to you?
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Abundance at the Edge of Wilderness
All of the leaves, beetles, pebbles
--and each one of them
too many points of beauty
each a world within and each a story
my longing to connect with every member of the multitude
see and converse with each one
pulls me out of my body—outreaching.
All at once-so many
my outreaching is an ecological death
as I disintegrate into the forest
exhaling beyond capacity
as each lichen and moth
inhales my attention, my admiration and wonder
until I disappear.
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Is my soul merely a collected pool of attention?
A condensation of sensations?
Is that why social media drains life?
My eyes blinking
--as the pipeline of vision pumps consciousness from pupil to post.
Each draw is a small deposit transacted on a small screen
below the threshold of alarm.
Beyond the screen the world is immense
Into which lands shall I pour my soul?
The landscape is endless, but I am not.
These decisions—or abdications--
are the blueprints of my reincarnation.
Shall I become zinnias, moths, twigs, or stones.
The landscape is endless, but I am not.
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In a context of scarcity
it is easy to mistake abundance
for all you can imagine
-- everything and anything possible.
But all of everything is not abundant.
It is death.
It is dissolution,
formless
Life forms between extremes
neither all, nor nothing.
Flows like a river,
has both speed and slowness,
--friction of shore and stones.
Has both ease and resistance.
Has vision and obstruction.
An abundant life
lives between
partly open and partly closed
In chosen pathways
at the edge of wilderness.
--Jonee Kulman Brigham, 2022
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Image by author: Abundance - Jar of Rocks, 2022
Schwartz, B. (2007). The paradox of choice: Why more is less (Reissued). Harper Perennial.
Sher, B. (2007). Refuse to choose!: A revolutionary program for doing everything that you love. Rodale.
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©Jonee Kulman Brigham